it’s all in the courting

TOP FIVE FAVES  this week is all about old fashioned dating skills that I love.  Pretty basic for some of us, but for others…take note…you will never go wrong.

one
FLOWERS! FLOWERS!  we can never get enough fresh flowers.  no matter where you are in the world, send your girl flowers…

two
OPEN THE DOOR.  such a simple and old fashioned approach, but we love it. Wanna step it up a level?  then open our car door for us as well…

three
COOK FOR US.  even if you don’t know how to, give it a go…we will just love that you tried.  A friend of mine just moved in with her boyfriend, quite far away from the norm for her, but she agreed only after he promised to bake  her a cake for every week they lived together, which he has…sweetest thing ever…

four
LOOK US IN THE EYES. If you are European, you probably don’t need to be educated on this one.  But for the rest of us…when you  ‘cheers’ with that first glass of wine or pint of beer, look us in the eyes (basic manners to do this for both sexes), when it’s your girl (or someone you want to be your girl) you should look her in the eyes when you take your first sip as well.  this is an obvious giveaway that you are interested…and pretty sexy too…

five…last but not least
STAND UP FOR YOURSELVES.  Yes we know we are woman, we have what you want, and most times you will give in to get it.  But it’s a lot sexier when you don’t.  Stand your ground and keep your backbone in tact…